Love is a universal emotion that transcends time and borders. It is not limited to one day of the year, but rather, it is a feeling that should be celebrated and cherished every day. Despite popular belief, love is not just for Valentine’s Day, it’s for life.
It is not just a feeling, but it is also a decision. A decision to show kindness, compassion, and generosity to those around you. It is the simple acts of love that can make the biggest impact on your life and the lives of others. Whether it’s a warm hug, a smile, or a kind word, these gestures have the power to brighten someone’s day and make a lasting impact.
One beautiful example of love that transcends Valentine’s Day is the story of someone I know who we should just call Tyrone and Brianna (not their real names). Tyrone was a veteran who lived in a nursing home. Every day Brianna, a volunteer, would visit him and sit by his side, holding his hand and talking to him. Over time, the two developed a strong bond, and Tyrone would light up every time he saw Brianna walk into the room. Despite their age differences and life experiences, they found love in each other’s company.
Brianna’s act of love towards Tyrone was not limited to one day of the year, but it was a consistent display of love, kindness, and compassion. It was this simple act of love that brought joy and comfort to both of their lives.
How to Show Love Beyond Valentine’s Day?
Just like Brianna, her love is a source of happiness, comfort, and a sense of belonging not only to herself but also to Tyrone. Even though Valentine’s Day is a special occasion dedicated to celebrating love, Tyrone and Brianna’s love for each other reminds us that love isn’t limited to just one day of the year. In fact, true love is something that should be celebrated and shown every day.
So, here are some ways to show love to those around you every day, not just on Valentine’s Day.
- Practice active listening:
When someone is speaking, give them your full attention and listen to what they have to say. This simple act can make a big difference in how someone feels and shows that you value their thoughts and feelings.
- Give compliments:
A genuine compliment can brighten someone’s day and boost their confidence. Whether it’s a simple “you look great today” or a heartfelt statement of appreciation, compliments are a simple way to show love.
- Do something thoughtful:
Whether it’s bringing someone a cup of coffee or taking care of a task they don’t enjoy, small acts of thoughtfulness can go a long way in showing someone you care.
- Spend quality time:
Spending quality time with someone is a meaningful way to show them love and strengthen your relationship. Whether it’s a shared meal, a game night, or simply talking, quality time is a valuable way to show someone you care.
- Be a good listener:
Being there for someone when they need to talk can be one of the most valuable ways to show love. Whether it’s a friend in need or a loved one going through a tough time, simply being there to listen can make a big difference.
If you’re still having a hard time thinking of how to show your love, try playing the “We’re Not Really Strangers Card Game“. This is a purpose-driven card game and movement all about empowering meaningful connections. At the same time, check out the “We’re Not Really Strangers Card Game (Couples Edition)” too.
Again, remember love is not just for Valentine’s Day, but it is something that should be celebrated every day. It is not just a feeling, but a decision to show kindness and compassion to those around us. Whether it’s a friend, family member, or a stranger, love has the power to make a positive impact on the world. So let’s spread love and make every day Valentine’s Day!
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