It’s not uncommon for men to feel lost and live with no purpose. Some men may find purpose through their careers, while others may find it through their families or other personal pursuits. However, not all men know exactly where they are going.
As a partner, a friend, or a colleague, every man would appreciate someone who can assist them in taking some time to reflect and identify what they want to achieve in life. Here are a few ways to help men understand their purpose:
1. Help them to reflect on their values and what is truly important to them:
“What do you value most in life?”
“What do you want to achieve?”
“What makes you happy?”
Ask them these because answering these questions can help them better understand what their purpose is. If they are not sure what their values are, allow them to take some time to think about what has been most important to them in their life so far. Another way to do this is by asking them to take our 4Ps Quiz. It can help them determine which aspects of their life are currently lacking in terms of peace, passion, purpose, and pleasure.
2. Help them consider their talents and strengths.
“What are you good at?”
“What do you enjoy doing?”
These are some of the questions you should ask them. Allow them to use their talents and strengths to help them identify their purpose. For example, if they are good at problem-solving, they could use their skills to help others in their community. If they enjoy working with children, they could become a teacher or a mentor.
3. Help them set goals.
Setting goals can help them stay focused and motivated as they work to achieve their purpose. Make sure their goals are specific, realistic, and achievable. Let them start with small goals and then work their way up to larger ones.
4. Help them get involved in their community.
One way to find purpose is to get involved in their community. There are many ways to do this, such as by volunteering, joining a club or organization, or simply being a good neighbor. Getting involved in their community can help them feel connected to something larger than themselves and can give them a sense of satisfaction.
5. Let them spend more time with their loved ones.
Spending time with loved ones is a way to help them remember what is truly important in their lives. Family and friends can also provide support and guidance as you work to achieve your goals.
Helping men to understand their purpose can be a challenge, but it’s worth it. By taking the time to encourage, listen, and support them, you can help them feel like they are a valuable part of your life and that they have a role to play and a purpose in your family. However, if they are still unable to understand their purpose despite your efforts, they may need the help of a mental health professional. Shirley Therapeutic and Consulting Services, LLC, is a diverse therapy clinic that can meet the needs of anyone. If you’d like to talk about your or their mental health, feel free to message us here. In case of emergency or thoughts of suicide, please click on this link: https://www.sprc.org/states/georgia
